You have purchased your girlfriend some sexy
lingerie, and the idea comes to you. What if I
take some sexy pictures to remember how sexy she
looks? There are a number of things you need to
keep in mind before the camera comes out, and they
will help insure that the photo session turns out
to be successful. Taking the pictures is extremely
important, but so is the time leading up to the
snapping of the shutter on the camera.
Shoot Location: What do you want
the background to be? Many amateur photographs
look amateurish due to the background. It is a
shame when a photograph has a beautiful woman in a
sexy outfit laying on a messy bed, in a room
filled with exercise equipment and last weeks
dirty laundry. Proper planning is a necessity as
the background is very important. Try to get out
of the bedroom, if possible. The more unique the
background, the better. A living room, game room
or even a dining room offers lots of potential.
Just be certain to keep it clear of clutter, and
make it clean. What do you want in the picture,
beside the gorgeous woman? A piece of art, a
picture, a fire place or just a chair? Perhaps she
is holding a glass of wine, a book or an article
of clothing? Be sure there are no family members
pictures on the walls, no kids toys and nothing
that draws the eyes away from your subject. Think
about the location.
Lights, Camera and Action:
Lighting is essential to a photograph and can
make a perfectly posed shot a disaster.
Professional photographers use light meters, spot
lights and indirect lighting for a purpose. Stay
away from using your own flash! Turn it off! Why,
because you are going to get a hot spot, red eye,
and shadowing that is not appealing to your
subject. Whenever possible use natural lighting,
like the sun! Try to have your model pose in
different lighting situations and pay attention to
the shadows she casts. Be prepared with additional
lights, and work at getting a well lit environment
before your subject is available. You may have
heard professional models say that a photo shoot
is hard work, and you may have responded "what is
so hard about sitting around in your underwear all
day"? The answer is, getting the shoot ready is
painstaking, tedious and tiring. Work it is! Don't
be tempted to use that flash as the lack of
lighting will not be helped much by a small flash
aimed at a portion of your subjects anatomy.
Lingerie, what to wear?:
This is all important as the lingerie she owns
may or may not be acceptable depending on how
large and varied her lingerie wardrobe is at the
time of the shoot. Keep in mind that bras and
panties are lingerie, sort of. Also, it is not
necessary to spend a lot of money to get a quality
set of photographs, but again that depends on her
wardrobe. To begin, open her lingerie drawers and
thus begins the adventure. She must be present,
and it shouldn't take long. Take an inventory of
sorts. What fits her, is not overly worn, torn or
tattered? What lingerie does she like, love or
hate? By process of elimination, you should arrive
at one or more candidates. Next, you need to go
online to Flirtylingerie.com or go to your local
boutique for a shopping trip. While beyond the
scope of this article, you need to find the right
style and color of lingerie that will fit into
your camera shoot. There are so many options such
as bustiers and corsets, bra and panty sets,
teddies, babydolls and fetish wear, just to name a
few. Don't forget the stockings, shoes and any
accessories she may want or need. Yes, this may
just be an excuse to buy her some sexy lingerie,
but you will both turn out to be winners.
Details, Details, Details:
There are the location details and the model
details. The location details are covered in the
shoot location, but once again, play the shots out
in advance in your mind. Is the area ready for a
photo shoot? Is the area clear and uncomplicated,
so as not to draw attention away from her? Do you
want her sitting, standing or laying down? Do you
have her props ready? Have you done your job,
before she has to do hers?
The next detail is the lovely model. Start at
the top or the bottom and go in the opposite
direction. Is her hair done to her satisfaction?
Is she happy with it? Is she wearing anything in
her hair, and if so, be sure it is straight and
fits properly. Next, her make up. Models wear more
make up usually than the girl on the street.
Consider asking her to wear false eyelashes, a
colorful eye shadow, deep red lipstick, earrings,
maybe even a temporary tattoo on her back. The
point is these are photographs of a beautiful girl
in sexy lingerie, not Sunday school photos. Next
is the lingerie. Is she going to wear more than
one outfit? If so, have it ready and by all means
cut off the tags. There is nothing tackier than a
picture of a girl in her panties with the
size/care tag showing. It was there to help you
buy it, you can cut it off, I promise. Also, be
sure she undresses in plenty of time to take these
pictures as you do not want lines on her skin from
pantyhose, panties, bra straps affecting her
appearance. Have her wear a loose fitting robe for
comfort, warmth and no panty lines before the
shoot. Once she is ready to have her photo taken,
other details are: Make sure the garment fits,
that the garter hangers are even, the thigh high
stockings are even on her legs, the bra straps are
not twisted. Hint: Have her wear her highest
heels, and consider props. Take a look in her
closet, drawers and anywhere she has her belts,
hats, scarves and accessories, including jewelry.
Be creative! A pair of sunglasses, or a hat she
wore with a costume, or a chain belt from her
discarded Christmas gifts may be a great prop. How
about one of your cigars, a football jersey and
the list goes on and on. Remember this not a
photograph for the Department of Motor Vehicles!
Spice it up! A vest she wears to work regularly
makes a different statement when there is nothing
else on underneath. Everything looks better on a
woman in high heels.
Just Relax: I mean
relax her, not you! If you have done your planning
correctly, the work is only half done. Don't
forget about the model Few, if any women warm up
to the idea of having photographs taken in her
near nakedness all that inviting. So you have a
job to do, and that is putting her at ease. Just
telling her to relax just isn't cutting it. There
are a couple of reason why she should be
concerned. First, she has certainly seen lingerie
models whether in Vogue, Elle or People magazines
for that matter. But, she is rightfully concerned
whether she is going to look good, or not. Fat or
not, hot or not. It isn't enough to give her a pep
talk, and hope for the best. Plan on relaxing her.
How do you intend to reassure her? First of all,
let her have a role in deciding which photographs
are keepers. If this were a shoot for Playboy, and
you were a professional photographer, then letting
the model have a role might be less of a good
idea. But this isn't a Playboy shoot, and she
needs to see that you are going to make her a
gorgeous picture. If you are using a digital
camera, let her see the results of a picture, and
genuinely ask for her opinion. What does she like,
or dislike about the photograph? Stay away from
close ups or any what I like to call gynecological
shots as they are always unattractive. Always! You
will know she is having fun when she can actually
smile. Smile? Yes, don't try to have every shot a
sexy one! Capture the real girl, and she is at her
best when she is smiling! Sure you will want some
come hither looks and glances. Getting her relaxed
is a step in the right direction.
Posing as a Model: As
the photographer it is your job to make certain
that she looks sexy, desirable and alluring. She
doesn't see what you see, and a good photographer
sees everything. Like a good boy scout you must
be, Prepared! What facial expressions do you want?
What physical poses do you need? What is her best
side? What features do you want to highlight? In
order to get the best shot, you will need to
experiment. You will need to be professional with
her, yet be prepared to direct her every move.
Keep in mind, normal expressions and poses usually
don't work as well as exaggerated posture and
positions that may be unnatural. Ask her to hold
her stomach in, point her toes, twist her head to
look behind her in order to get the best pose,
look and mood. Again, experiment and you will see
that a models work is indeed work. Standing in
front of the camera with her shoulders slumped,
her tummy distended and an expressionless look on
her face is not a good picture. Hint: Look at
men's magazines or women's magazines for
inspiration. Look for the details! Why does the
photographer have the girl facing the camera and
her eyes are turned to the side? Why is her back
arched so completely? You get the idea!
The eyes have it! So
you finally talked her into wearing some skimpy
lingerie to have her picture taken, and you are
not going to waste this opportunity, are you?
Well, after you get that out of your system
remember that her eyes are the window into her
soul. While this old saying may or may not mean
much to you, take heed. Avoid the temptation to
catalog her body parts. What makes a woman sexy?
Well, we don't have space here to argue the finer
points, but we express ourselves with our eyes.
Keep her eyes in focus for a memorable photograph.
Try it!
Frame her: How many
times have you seen an amateur photograph and the
image has cut off the head, or the person is not
centered ? That is a bad photograph, generally.
When you are looking at your viewfinder, frame her
in the picture. Frame her in the picture. If she
is laying down, her head should be in one corner
and her legs, feet in the other. Consider the
framing of the subject in every photograph.
To tripod, or not to tripod:
Don't ruin a photograph because you
jiggled the camera accidentally. Use a tripod, and
if you don't have one you do have a table, a stack
of books or whatever it takes to make sure the
camera does not move. Also, use the timer. No, not
because you are getting in the picture, but
because the camera must be perfectly still when
the lenses opens.
Practice, Practice, Practice:
Practice doesn't make perfect, but
practice moves one towards perfection. Review your
photographs with a critical eye. Keep in mind that
some photographers work for years before they take
that perfect photograph with the right lighting,
expression and model. While it may not be
appropriate, your model may allow you to get
others opinions, such as on internet sites
websites where you can submit photographs can be
reviewed, but again, this is her decision. In any
event, keep working at it and you will both enjoy
the results.